THE POWER OF TECHNOLOGY

The advances in technology in recent years has been phenomenal.  It has made our lives easier and safer in many ways, but at the same time, and often without us even realising, it has made our lives more stressful.  Without technology, you wouldn't be reading this, nor would this or any of the resources on this website exist.  Technology as a tool is powerful, but technology as a master is also powerful.  Is technology serving you - or are you serving it?

Some of the BenefitsSome of the Disadvantages
  • Keeping in touch with family and friends.
  • Digital photos, records, books, word processing, spreadsheets, databases, search functions.
  • Applications empowering and saving time.
  • Access to information, data, systems
  • Presentations, training
  • Maps, GPS, tracking, assistance
  • Another means of spreading the gospel
  • Hackers, viruses, scams.  Identity, data and money theft.
  • Cyberbullying
  • Inappropriate content
  • Cost, unreliability
  • Demands for our time and attention
  • Reduced physical/social contact
  • Affects concentration, memory, behaviour
  • Necessary, unavoidable

The purpose of this page is to highlight some of the things to watch out for, to get the best use of technology while minimizing the dangers.

The ways that technology has changed our lives can be divided into these categories
  1. Access
  2. Change in lifestyle
  3. Physical, mental, emotional and spiritual effects
Access
Technology gives us the access to do many things much more easily than ever before.  But it also gives those who would spread hurt or hate, more access to ourselves, our data, and our children. 

Scammers etc
This is not the main focus of this article, however some very brief points to help are:
What computer?
Cyberbullying
The temptation to cyberbully is perhaps even greater than to bully in real life, because of the distance between the bullies and the victim.  The results are not immediately visible, and it may seem like a game, but it can have horrific results.  The book Digital Cocaine has a whole chapter on bullying and cyberbullying, both from the point of view of the victim, and those doing the bullying, and says that bullying in all forms should be dealt with.

www.esafety.gov.au/key-topics/cyberbullying has a lot of information about cyberbullying and currently quotes ‘44% of Australian young people reported having a negative online experience in the last 6 months’ - eSafety Commissioner 2021

Doing your best to keep the lines of communication open between you and your child is crucial.  As best as you can, be ‘approachable’ when your child has troubling issues, including being bullied. – Digital Cocaine p. 153

Content

Technology brings the outside world into our homes, and we need to be vigilant in evaluating the content, especially where our children are concerned.

The prefrontal cortex is the area of our brain where we are consciously aware of our actions and their consequences.  This area is not fully developed in any of us until we’re in our mid-twenties.  Because your child is only partially able to understand the ramifications of his actions, giving him an internet-connected phone is about as dangerous as putting a moth in a room lit only by a candle.  In other words, at times, your child needs you to think for him. – Digital Cocaine p. 157
Some things you can do
It's easy Dad!
Change in lifestyle
Technology makes our lives easier when it works, and more stressful when it doesn't.  It saves us time and can also help us waste time.  There is almost no such thing as down-time anymore, thanks to technology, we are contactable at all times, and it is not just humans who are vying for our attention, we get notifications from apps and websites, no matter what we are doing, we are surrounded by news and advertising of all sorts.

This has some major effects on our brains.  1. Influence.  2. Overload.   3. Interrupted concentration.  4. Social effects.

Influence:
We are a society adept at substituting a quick fix for the stress of living.  We don't really know how to bear up gracefully in time of need because the societal message is that we need never suffer.  There's always a McDonald's around the corner, a mall a mile away and a bar across the street. Every headache gets a pill or a cup of coffee and every lack is filled in two seconds. - I can't be an Addict, I'm a Christian p. 37

The values of our society have changed.  Patience, planning, saving and hard work have been replaced by, buy now pay later, just take a loan, instant gratification, constant entertainment, and everyone gets a prize.

Our brains process things best in real time.  Whatever happens in the real world by definition happens in real time.  Our modern world has changed our perception of what is real and one reason for this is the invention of fast-paced media, our world becomes surreal. - Digital Cocaine p. 109

Screen time gives immediate rewards.  When you click on a screen you immediately get a response… Since instruction in school isn’t always interesting, instantly gratifying or rewarding, screen-driven kids enter the classroom at a disadvantage. They are not willing to risk failure or endure boredom… on a screen, if you make a mistake, you can just start over without any consequences.  You simply hit the undo button, refresh the screen, or reboot… but in the real world, you can’t go back to fix it. - Growing up Social p. 98

Overload

Our brain is an amazing organ, the control centre of our bodies.  Many different parts working together, learning, remembering, regenerating.  However the way we live these days is having a negative effect on our brains.

Overflowing cup Imagine these cups represent the pleasure centre of your brain, the cup on the left represents the way our ancestors lived, each drop representing the boost of pleasure we get from the good things that happen to us, the good things we see, the knowledge of a job well done and so on.  The cup on the right is our brains today in constant overload.

This constant overload can cause a variety of problems for our brains and bodies.  The very least being that blah feeling when we don't get the stimulation we are used to. 
Technology plays a big part in this because technology is most often the medium that brings the overload to us.

Interrupted Concentration

The lack of down-time, the overstimulation, and the constant interruptions that we all face, are having a negative effect on our ability to concentration and memorise.  Learning difficulties are also exacerbated, including dyslexia, ADD and ADHD.  This is compounded by lack of sleep, and the quality of sleep itself is affected by using screens too close to bedtime, not having a regular bedtime, and not going to bed when we should.

The book Digital Cocaine talks about digital multitasking, also known as rapid toggling or task switching.  An extreme example is: Texting, while studying, and watching YouTube, checking email and Facebook all at the same time.  (p. 168) This is addictive because each task switch triggers a dopamine hit in our brains. But this type of multitasking reduces productivity and increases mistakes.  And because we are not practicing concentrating, we are losing the ability, or never developing the ability, to concentrate.

We had an interesting discussion recently in a group of 10-13 year-olds.  All of the kids in the group said: 1. Their parents limit and/or monitor their screen time at home, and 2. That they were academically in the top of their school classes.  But some of them also admitted that since they have had more screen time in the last couple of years their grades are not as good as they used to be.

Social effects:
The digital home lends itself to isolation which then breeds loneliness.  Kids are in their rooms on their screens, dad is on his computer watching sport and mum is in another room on Facebook.  None are connected with each other although living under the same roof! -  Digital Cocaine p. 107

Children who grow up on screens become wired to use their gadgets to communicate instead of face-to-face-interactions with people.  Dr Gary Small says, ‘The pathways for human interaction and communication weaken as customary one-on-one people skills atrophy.’  - Growing up Social p. 125

The authors bring out the fact that unless parents set and keep very definite boundaries around the use of screens for both their children and for themselves, children will miss out on learning important social skills.  Boundaries are needed both around the content, as discussed earlier, and the time used.  Important social skills include the 5 A’s: Affection, Appreciation, Anger Management, Apology and Attention.

Researchers are concerned that when screen time goes up, empathy goes down.  Kids are exposed to violence in video games, which can desensitize them to pain in others, bullying, and acts of violence.  The ease of online friendships – you can just move on to another friend if someone is bugging you – can make real-life relationships too frustrating.  – Growing up Social p. 45

Friends on phones
Physical, mental and emotional effects
Children hooked on screen time are not only sedentary, but they are also being fed a stream of advertising that increases their desire for unhealthy foods.  Screen-time kids are exposed to 5000 to 10000 food ads per year, most of them for fast food and junk food.  Watching television or playing video games at night also hinders sleep.  A child can easily step into a vicious cycle of watching television or playing video games, not exercising, eating junk food, sleeping poorly, and gaining weight.  These are destructive patterns for any child, and for the shy child it can be particularly debilitating as it leads to further isolation.  – Growing up Social p. 121
 
Alvin Toffler, author of Future Shock says: “Constant stimulation of the senses shuts down the analytical processes of the mind and ultimately shuts down the ability to think and face life rationally. This leads to escape techniques and adaptive responses which tend to involve withdrawal, apathy, and rejection of disciplined thinking when faced with difficult duties and decisions. - Depression the Way Out p. 202

The author makes the note that both common substance addictions and programs with ‘rapid changing scene reference’ – where the scene or viewing angle changes several times in a minute, have a negative effect on the frontal lobe of the brain.  The frontal-lobe is the control centre of the brain where conscious functions occur: reasoning, planning, decision making, emotional control, behaviour, and self-awareness.  Rapidly changing scenes have a hypnotic effect on the brain, so that what is seen, bypasses the evaluation of the frontal-lobe, and goes straight into the memory, without the person being able to pass judgement as to the suitability of the content.

A study comparing video content with the risk of attention problems in young people found no increased risk with slow-paced education programs (documentaries), 60% increased risk with fast paced entertainment, and 100% increase with violent programs, which are typically even more fast paced. - Digital Cocaine p. 109

Our adrenal system is also pushed beyond its normal limits which increases the risk of experiencing anxiety, depression, insomnia, high blood pressure, diabetes, stress, and also affects our immune system. - Digital Cocaine p. 51

Over-stimulation of the pleasure centre of the brain increases the risk of addiction and is involved in addictions and all the problems that go them, including withdrawal symptoms.  Some of mental problems include, boredom, digital dementia (early onset dementia that resembles Alzheimer’s), brain damage and Anhedonia (the inability to feel pleasure from normal activities).

We live in an addictive society, believing in the "dream" only to have it shattered by reality. The Recipe for addiction is: 1. An addictive environment 2. Stress 3. One or more mood-alterers. [And] not all mood-alterers are ingested.  Some of the most powerful addictions do not involve alcohol, drugs or food, but are equally destructive.  This group is called process addiction, or behavior addiction, in which the victim is caught in the tornado by repetitive, life-controlling behaviors.  These processes include gambling, workaholism, compulsive worry, compulsive anger, shopping, entertainment, exercising and religious perfectionism, but there are many others.  The numbers of process addictions can be as numerous as the specialized interests of human beings and are usually characterized by being healthy activities carried to unhealthy extremes. -  I'm a Christian, I can't be an Addict p. 43, 67

Other addiction examples listed in these books include: Pornography, video game addiction, mobile phone addiction, multitasking addiction, texting addiction, Facebook addiction, self-harm addictions, food addictions (sugar, chocolate, coffee and other caffeine sources, compulsive eating and craving foods that aggravate existing medical conditions.)

Note: For a person to be 'action'-addicted, he must be on a destructive course, caught in the addictive cycle… even noble pursuits can turn into process addictions when they become all-consuming and uncontrollable. -  I'm a Christian, I can't be an Addict p. 67

This book also warns to beware of Cross-addictions: Many addicts may be able to stop drinking or taking drugs but turn instead to other compulsive behaviours such as work-aholism, caffeine ingestion or food-aholism in an attempt to 'white-knuckle it'.  These cross-addictions mask the root and reinforce denial. -  I'm a Christian, I can't be an Addict p. 116'

Babysitter Warning
Spiritual effects
You must love the LORD your God with all your heart, all your soul, all your strength, and all your mind.’ And, ‘Love your neighbour as yourself.  - Luke 10:27 NLT

A study on iPhones related that while the participants didn’t demonstrate the classic brain-based signs of addiction to their iPhones, their brains responded to the sound of the phones in the same way they would respond to their boyfriend, girlfriend, niece, nephew or family pet.  In short, it may not be an addiction in the medical sense, but it is true love. – Digital Cocaine p. 32

You should know this, Timothy, that in the last days there will be very difficult times.  For people will love only themselves and their money. They will be boastful and proud, scoffing at God, disobedient to their parents, and ungrateful. They will consider nothing sacred.  They will be unloving and unforgiving; they will slander others and have no self-control. They will be cruel and hate what is good.  They will betray their friends, be reckless, be puffed up with pride, and love pleasure rather than God. - 2 Timothy 3 NLT

It is interesting to note the reference to ‘lovers of pleasure’, since addictions and addictive behaviours, work by over stimulating the pleasure centre. - I Can’t be an Addict – I’m a Christian p. 24

But you, Daniel, keep this prophecy a secret; seal up the book until the time of the end, when many will rush here and there, and knowledge will increase. -  Daniel 12:4 NLT

Since the introduction of screens into our homes, each succeeding generation has spent more and more time on screens, and been exposed to them, from an earlier age.  My husband is a tradie, and I have often heard both him, and other tradies talking about the unreliability of young people these days.  They are constantly on their phones, and not giving the proper time and attention to their work.  They can’t remember or follow instructions.  They can’t do maths.  They can’t think ahead, they have no initiative and can’t see what needs to be done.  They don’t respect other people’s stuff. 

For God is working in you, giving you the desire and the power to do what pleases Him. Philippians 2:13 NLT

The frontal-lobe of the brain is what sets humans apart from animals.  Our frontal-lobes are proportionally larger.  Not only is it our control centre for consciousness and reasoning, it is also the centre for spirituality, moral judgements, and empathy.  It is here that we hear the still small voice of God speaking to us. -  Depression the Way Out p. 181

As mentioned earlier, many types of media have a negative effect on the frontal-lobe.  And just as technology use is affecting the ability of young people to work, it is also affecting their spiritual ability.  With each succeeding generation, the voice of God is becoming harder and harder to hear. 

As a kids Sabbath School leader, a Pathfinder counsellor, and a parent, I have many times observed the change that comes over kids when they receive a phone or tablet for their birthday.  Their interest, and ability to sit and listen diminishes.  Their ability to remember and memorise is greatly reduced.  Last year in Pathfinders, I could teach the Memory Gem Bible verses, by singing a phrase at time, half a dozen times, before adding the next phrase, and in just a few minutes, several of the kids would repeat the verse back to me.  This year, most of these same kids can’t, and it takes 3 or 4 meetings of revision before they can remember the verse.  Their joy and excitement at learning diminishes, as does their desire to be helpful.  They lose their interest and willingness to participate in the different aspects of worship. I used to see this happening with mid-teens, then it was early teens, now it is often junior age kids.  How much more are those who are currently toddlers going to be affected?

I have heard it said that the end of the world is not some arbitrary point in time that God randomly chooses.  Instead, it is the point at which, even if more time was allowed, no one would change their mind.  I believe this, as I can see it happening around me.  We are living in the end time, just like it was in the days of Noah. 

Behold, I stand at the door...
What You Can Do
  1. Develop good exercise and sleep habits.
  2. Do whatever you can to reduce the over-load on your brain.  Turn off unnecessary notifications, unsubscribe from unnecessary advertising emails.  Take regular breaks and limit or replace activities that are likely to over-stimulate. 
  3. Have technology free times.  Have some quiet times without the TV or music on.  When you have to wait somewhere, do nothing – it’s actually good for our brains to be bored sometimes - practice patience.  Make bedrooms, cars, family times, play dates, and mealtimes etc. technology free – no TV, phones or other screens.  Make certain places, days, or times of day, screen free, or do a digital detox for a period of time.
  4. Practice focusing and concentrating on one task at a time whenever you can.  Students doing homework should do one subject at a time, no devices, no music (except perhaps for art).  If required, use the internet and then close it to avoid tempting distractions.
  5. Fill your spare time with less-stimulating activities: swimming, walking, biking, hiking, fishing, board-games, card-games, lego, sandpit, reading, art, hobbies, playing a music instrument, playing sport, join a choir, join a club.
  6. Evaluate technology use:
  7. Remind yourself that parenting has little to do with being popular. Instead, it requires backbone and thick skin to make changes in the screen-time rules whenever necessary. - Growing Up Social p. 172
  8. Grow your spiritual life.  Ask God for help.  ABC of prayer: Ask for something God has promised in a Bible verse, Believe He will do what He promised. Use your actions to show that you have Claimed and received what was promised. Give thanks for it.
So commit yourselves wholeheartedly to these words of mine. Tie them to your hands and wear them on your forehead as reminders. Teach them to your children. Talk about them when you are at home and when you are on the road, when you are going to bed and when you are getting up. Write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates. – Deuteronomy 11:18-20NLT

Is it a Habit or Addiction?
This list from I'm a Christian, I can't be an Addict, might be useful in evaluating your habits.  Answering yes to 1, 3 and 7 could indicate a habit in the beginning stages of becoming an addiction, and it is important to keep it in check and not allow it to develop into an addiction. Answering yes to any of the others may indicate that it is already an addiction and may benefit from counselling, a support group or treatment centre. (p. 52)Chained to phone
  1. Do I turn to my habit when I am under positive or negative stress?
  2. Do I need more of the substance or activity than I used to in order to experience pleasure?
  3. Do I turn to my substance or habit as a reward?
  4. Do I feel the need to hide my substance or activity from those who know me?
  5. Has my habit affected my productivity at all on the job or at home?
  6. Have I stolen, overextended my credit or used money designated for other budget needs to support my habit?
  7. If left unchecked, could my habit be destructive to myself or others?
  8. Have those closest to me mentioned my excesses to me?
  9. Do I feel defensive when the subject of my habit is brought up?
  10. Do I feel guilt or remorse for indulging in my habit?
  11. Do I promise myself I will stop?
  12. Do I find that, regardless of my resolve to stop, I turn to it again?
  13. Do I plan activities, reject or accept invitations on the basis of the availability of my substance or habit?
  14. Do I indulge when I am alone?
  15. Do I indulge at times others would call odd?
  16. Has indulging in my habit brought emotional pain, physical injury or quenched the Holy Spirit in myself or others?


Bibliography:
Chapman, Gary & Pellicane, Arlene.  Growing Up Social. Raising relational kids in a screen-driven world.  Northfield Publishing.  2014.
Huddleston, Brad.  Digital Cocaine. A Journey Toward iBalance.  Christian Art Publishers.  2016. 
Neil Nedley, MD.  Depression the Way Out.  Nedley Publishing.  2009.
Melinda Fish.  I Can’t be an Addict – I’m a Christian.  Baker Book House.  1990